The first few years of relationships are usually the happiest. It is a period when two people enjoy being with each other and experience many great things together. There is intimacy, fun, excitement, adventure, and all the other things that make relationships wonderful. Unfortunately, there may come the point in a relationship when all those positive aspects start to diminish. Instead of smiling and laughing together, a couple may continuously bicker and argue with each other. In most cases, the arguments are over small insignificant things that do not matter.
Why does end up happening?
It would be wonderful if the romance in a relationship could stay consistent forever. However, the reality is that feelings and circumstances in life will change. The way you act and feel at one moment in time may not be sustainable 5 or 10 years from now. That is why so many married people end up dealing with issues, such as lack of intimacy, poor communication, lack of enjoyment, contact arguing, and overall dissatisfaction with the relationship. One partner will blame the other partner for their unhappiness and vice versa. At this rate, nothing ever gets resolved, and the negative feelings continue to escalate in the household, at this point they should seek marriage Counseling.
Marriage Counseling is the type of therapy that will remedy these unhappy circumstances that couples may face. My counseling sessions will explore what went wrong in their relationship and why. Perhaps each partner is spending too much time working and not spending quality time with one another. In many cases, couples will find that adult responsibilities like working a job and raising kids are making them forget how much they love each other. The way to remind each other of this love is through positive communication.