The first few years of relationships are usually the happiest. It is a period when two people enjoy being with each other and experience many great things together. There is intimacy, fun, excitement, adventure, and all the other things that make relationships wonderful. Unfortunately, there may come the point in a relationship when all those positive aspects start to diminish. Instead of smiling and laughing together, a couple may continuously bicker and argue with each other. In most cases, the arguments are over small insignificant things that do not matter. Why does end up happening?
It would be wonderful if the romance in a relationship could stay consistent forever. However, the reality is that feelings and circumstances in life will change. The way you act and feel at one moment in time may not be sustainable 5 or 10 years from now. That is why so many married people end up dealing with issues, such as lack of intimacy, poor communication, lack of enjoyment, contact arguing, and overall dissatisfaction with the relationship. One partner will blame the other partner for their unhappiness and vice versa. At this rate, nothing ever gets resolved, and the negative feelings continue to escalate in the household, at this point they should seek marriage Counseling.
Marriage Counseling is the type of therapy that will remedy these unhappy circumstances that couples may face. My counseling sessions will explore what went wrong in their relationship and why. Perhaps each partner is spending too much time working and not spending quality time with one another. In many cases, couples will find that adult responsibilities like working a job and raising kids are making them forget how much they love each other. The way to remind each other of this love is through positive communication.
Why Marriage Counseling The great thing about Marriage Counseling sessions is that they give couples the chance to be positive and communicate with each other. As a therapist, I am just the mediator that will manage the communication between partners so that you both talk about what is essential and meaningful in your lives. Once you come to this realization, you will be able to carry forward that positive communication back at home in your private life. This will eliminate all that needless bickering and argue, which never does anybody any good.If you and your Spouse are in real love with each other, then you will not feel intimidated by Marriage counseling. There are no right or wrong sides here. As long as both partners are committed to improving their relationship and fixing whatever the problems are, then Marriage Counseling will be a positive experience for everyone.
Edmonton Counseling Services provides counseling for Individual and families